Improved non-public reply check.

html.c

@@ -2054,9 +2054,16 @@ xs_str *html_timeline(snac *user, const xs_list *list, int read_only,
         if (user != NULL && !is_msg_public(msg)) {
             char *irt = xs_dict_get(msg, "inReplyTo");
 
+            /* is it a reply to something not in the storage? */
             if (!xs_is_null(irt) && !object_here(irt)) {
-                snac_debug(user, 1, xs_fmt("skipping non-public reply to an unknown post %s", v));
-                continue;
+                /* is it for me? */
+                xs_list *to = xs_dict_get_def(msg, "to", xs_stock(XSTYPE_LIST));
+                xs_list *cc = xs_dict_get_def(msg, "cc", xs_stock(XSTYPE_LIST));
+
+                if (xs_list_in(to, user->actor) == -1 && xs_list_in(cc, user->actor) == -1) {
+                    snac_debug(user, 1, xs_fmt("skipping non-public reply to an unknown post %s", v));
+                    continue;
+                }
             }
         }